How do you find a date post divorce? Many of my close to 30/never been married friends have done the online thing, but that just does not interest me.
How does one find a way to date without feeling awkward? I haven't dated since the 90's! Yes I am that old.
The last time I dated there was no Facebook, cell phones, or even text messaging. So the pressure is on.
I know that most of my "identity" is based on me being a mother, but as I mentioned, I am also a woman. I am only 32 and I have the rest of my life to live.
What have you done to meet that other soul mate?
I miss dating, even though it has been a long time. I miss talking about my day to another adult who genuinely cares and can comfort me when the day goes to hell. Or even the small things like cuddling before bed, holding hands while walking, or sharing dreams about the future. I miss going out for dinner without ordering from the kids menu or sharing my order with the kiddo.
I don't know if I will ever get married, but I hope that I find a partner that will support me as an individual and as a mother. I hope that I find a partner that will love me for being a strong woman, a motivated career woman, and a giving mom. But I guess I also have to put myself out there for that to happen.
I don't think I want to meet someone at a bar and I don't belong to a gym so how does this happen? Only time will tell. I you know someone who is single and won't just screw me over, send them my way. Feel free to hand out my number, email or other. I am open to finding someone to make plans with, not to marry. I am looking for someone to have fun with and enjoy life with. Keep me in mind!
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